We gritted our teeth but for as long as we live – it’s not going to be the same because she is still `suplada` and not Catholic. Paw keeps telling me to forgive her but I cannot forgot what she has already done to the boy’s family and relatives.

I wished the boy married a younger nurse so that she could help put Cortisone cream on his scalp, to help pull out his white hair (in order to decrease the scratching) and to help out his emotions and learn our ways. But she refuses and continues to her ways. I see her serving the boy. That’s too Asian. We are Westernized. I wished the boy takes a hint

She is not good enough for the boy because she’s too old to bear children. We think she is in her fifties. The boy can fool around for all we care. Seriously, even his cousin Jerel made beautiful children and his parents love them all even though they are from different set of wives.

She is not good enough for the boy because she refuses to change her last name. Her promotion doesn’t do anything but make us wonder who are her family, really. The name on that business card is not our last name. Right there she is a disgrace to the boy and a dishonor to our family name.